{"id":1432,"date":"2026-10-03T07:30:16","date_gmt":"2026-10-03T07:30:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/takhte.in\/VoiceofViews\/?p=1432"},"modified":"2026-10-03T08:32:58","modified_gmt":"2026-10-03T08:32:58","slug":"always-online-never-present-the-growing-crisis-among-youth","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/takhte.in\/VoiceofViews\/always-online-never-present-the-growing-crisis-among-youth\/","title":{"rendered":"Always Online, Never Present: The Growing Crisis Among Youth"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Nishat &#8211; BA Psychology <\/strong><br><strong>The NorthCap University<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">In the quiet hours past midnight, you said to yourself, \u201cI will scroll Instagram for five more minutes, then I will sleep.\u201d Now forty minutes have gone by and you&#8217;re still wide awake. You are aware that you must rise early tomorrow, yet your thumb continues to mindlessly scroll through the screen, viewing videos that you will not even recall. You are not pleased with most of them, but it is still difficult to put the phone down.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Now consider this: When was the last time you experienced boredom and simply sat there feeling that way?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">You did not try to look at your phone or do something else. Instead, you just sit there with boredom and let yourself be free to think about things.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">For most of you, remembering such a time may be challenging because people today hate being bored. You always want something to occupy your time, even if it&#8217;s useless. A notification, a reel, or any social media aesthetic will distract you from sitting alone with your thoughts. It makes you feel satisfied, right? You do not want to be bored at all; you constantly want to feel satisfied without doing something profound.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">And that is why smartphones and social media have become an inseparable part of our lives. They are designed to make our routines easier, helping us learn, communicate, work, and stay connected. Yet, as technology becomes more integrated into our lives, many young people are spending increasingly more time online without realizing how much control they have lost over their present lives.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Technology is not inherently harmful. It serves the youth in various ways, like students using smartphones to access educational resources and stay informed about current events. \u00b9 Social media was made to maintain relationships across long distances, connect with new people, and provide opportunity for self-expression, and all of this comes under healthy use of technology. \u00b9&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The problem began when this use gradually turned into uncontrollable and continuous consumption. \u00b2.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Think about a time when you opened Instagram to answer a message, but instead of replying, you started watching videos of places you want to visit. Then you see more clips that have nothing to do with why you opened Instagram in the first place. This can happen without you realizing it. Your phone becomes what you turn to when you are bored or feeling lonely or stressed out. This habit feels harmless at first, but eventually your phone becomes what you turn to when you are bored, lonely, or stressed out. Slowly, this overuse develops into addiction for many individuals, and reducing screen time becomes extremely difficult despite repeated attempts.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">One can recognize this addiction because of effects like lack of adequate sleep, short attention span, lack of concentration on slow-paced tasks, decline in academic performance, relationship conflicts, and mental well-being, yet individuals continue the behaviour. \u00b2.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">You may wonder, why does the brain become hooked?\u00b3<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">To understand the addiction, imagine a slot machine in a casino. People keep pulling the lever in anticipation of winning a prize on their next try.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The uncertainty is exciting. Psychologists describe it as a \u201creward loop.&#8221; \u00b3 The brain associates phone use with the unpredictable possibility of receiving a reward. \u00b3 Every time you refresh your feed, open a notification, or check for new messages, you are searching for a potential reward. \u00b3<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&nbsp;Our brain has become accustomed to constant stimulation. People feel compelled to check their devices repeatedly throughout the day.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The more we seek stimulation from our phones, the harder it has become to achieve satisfaction and joy in ordinary moments like reading a book, having an offline conversation, taking a walk, or simply sitting quietly.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&nbsp;Now let&#8217;s talk about a far more complicated reality. It is simple to blame ourselves for lack of discipline and self-control, but we are not entirely at fault. Modern digital media was built this way. It is optimized to hold our attention as long as possible. Every social media platform has become progressively better at holding human attention.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Every click, pause, like, comment, replay, and swipe is data for an algorithm to learn about the user. \u00b9 This algorithmically driven system continuously adapts itself to keep users engaged for long periods of time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Features such as infinite scrolling, autoplay, notifications, personalized recommendations, endless content, and well-curated feeds are not accidental. \u00b9 They are carefully designed for engagement.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Do you know the consequences of this feed beyond the screens?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Today&#8217;s youth find it challenging to maintain attention during activities presented at a natural human pace. Lessons, books, discussions, movies, and long-form content increasingly compete against higher-stimulation forms like constant sensory changes, rapid transitions, and fast-paced digital media. \u00b2.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">There was a time when students used to think, wait, ask, and explain. Nowadays? They cannot make a simple decision without asking an AI chatbot.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The hardest part is recognizing that we&#8217;re not simply spending \u201ca lot of time\u201d on the phone; we are trapped in the world of constant stimulation, waiting for unpredictable rewards.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The danger is that the youth have forgotten to stay present in their lives without a smartphone, and this is because addiction thrives in isolation and self-control is not enough to tackle it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The first step is self-awareness and acceptance.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ask yourself:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Do you immediately reach for your phone just after waking up? Or whenever you feel bored? Or do you reach for your phone whenever you want to take a break?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Do you find yourself checking notifications even when there are none?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Have you tried to reduce your screen time but failed terribly?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Do you feel hollow and meaningless after hours of scrolling reels?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>The second step is evaluation: Learn about what I am trying to feel when I pick up the phone\u2014is it a choice or a reflex?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Are we choosing to lose the real moments of life by investing our attention elsewhere?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Is technology causing us to lose touch with real life through persuasive algorithms?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>The goal is to protect our attention, protect our consumption, and protect how we spend our time. Our phones will always be readily available for us to pick up.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>The real question is whether we will be able to resist the urge to pick them up.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&nbsp;References:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&nbsp;1. American Psychiatric Association. What is technology addiction? [Internet]. USA: APA; 2024 [cited 2026 JUN 9]. Available from: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.psychiatry.org\/patients-families\/technology-addictions-social-media-and-more\/what-is-technology-addiction\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">https:\/\/www.psychiatry.org\/patients-families\/technology-addictions-social-media-and-more\/what-is-technology-addiction<\/a><br>&nbsp;2. Arooj I, Munir I, Yasmeen H. Physical and mental implications of mobile phone addiction. Science Direct. 2025; 183(4):394-399.<br>3. Help Guide. Smartphone and Internet Addiction [Internet]. California: Help Guide; 2026 [cited 2026 Jun 9]. Available from: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.helpguide.org\/mental-health\/addiction\/smartphone-addiction\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">https:\/\/www.helpguide.org\/mental-health\/addiction\/smartphone-addiction<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Edited by: Goldie Kasturia<br>Founder \u2013 Takhte Writers and Publishers<br><\/strong><strong>Trustee &#8211; Ojass Takhte Trust<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">PHOTO COURTESY- todd-trapani-unsplash<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Nishat &#8211; BA Psychology The NorthCap University In the quiet hours past midnight, you said to yourself, \u201cI will scroll Instagram for five more minutes, then I will sleep.\u201d Now forty minutes have gone by and you&#8217;re still wide awake. 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